[Love] does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. —1 Corinthians 13:6

Find a specific, recent example when your spouse demonstrated Christian character in a noticeable way. Verbally commend them for this at some point today.

As you do this, watch out that pride does not enter in.  It is not about “You’re really good at X, just like me”, it’s more like, “You’re really good at X, and that makes you even more beautiful.”