August 2009

65. Resolved, to make it a top priority to be open and honest to God, and speak to Him about every aspect of my soul: all my sins, temptations, difficulties, sorrows, fears, hopes, desires, and every thing, and every circumstance; according to Dr. Manton’ s 27th Sermon on Psalm 119. July 26, and Aug.10 1723.

66. Resolved, that I will endeavor always to keep a low profile, except when it is my duty to speak or act.

67. Resolved, after going through a period of spiritual attack, to assess how God has used the attack to improve the state of my soul. [What a refreshing notion.  Instead of whining, figure out what God is doing to make me stronger.]

68. Resolved, to be honest with myself about my inclinations and desires, whether they arise from sickness or sin; and if my heart is not fully devoted to God, I will confess it all to Him and beg for His help. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

69. Resolved, always to behave in the way that good people do – those whose behavior I see and say to myself, “I wish I were that way.” August 11, 1723.

70. Let there be something kind, in all that I speak. August 17, 1723.


81. Be not Curious to Know the Affairs of Others, neither approach those that Speak in Private.

82. Undertake not what you cannot Perform but be Careful to keep your Promise.

83. When you deliver a matter, do it without Passion & with Discretion, however mean the Person be you do it too. [Mean = lowly]

84. When your Superiors talk to any Body hearken not neither Speak nor Laugh.

85. In Company of these of Higher Quality than yourself Speak not til you are asked a Question then Stand upright put of your Hat & Answer in few words.

86. In Disputes, be not So Desirous to Overcome as not to give Liberty to each one to deliver his Opinion and Submit to the Judgment of the Major Part especially if they are Judges of the Dispute.

87. Let thy carriage be such as becomes a Man Grave Settled and attentive to that which is spoken. Contradict not at every turn what others Say.

88. Be not tedious in Discourse, make not many Digressions, nor repeat often the Same manner of Discourse.

89. Speak not Evil of the absent for it is unjust.

90. Being Set at meat Scratch not, neither Spit, Cough, or blow your Nose, except there’s a Necessity for it. [Naturally, if you are eating with a vegetarian you are free to cough up a bit of phlegm if desired.  But not if you’re eating meat!!]

57. Resolved, when I fear misfortunes and adversities, to examine whether I have done my duty, and resolve to do it, and let the event be just as providence orders it. I will as far as I can, be concerned about nothing but my duty, and my sin. June 9, and July 13 1723.

58. Resolved, not only to refrain from an air of dislike, fretfulness, and anger in conversation, but to exhibit an air of love, cheerfulness and gentleness. May 27, and July 13, 1723.

59. Resolved, when I am most conscious of provocations to ill nature and anger, that I will strive most to feel and act good-naturedly; yea, at such times, to manifest good nature, even though I think that in other respects it would be disadvantageous, and so as would be imprudent at other times. May 12, July 11, and July 13.

60. Resolved, whenever my feelings begin to appear in the least out of order, when I am conscious of the least uneasiness within, or the least irregularity without, I will then subject myself to the strictest examination. July 4, and 13, 1723.

61. Resolved, that I will not give in to that laziness which I find relaxes my mind from being fully and fixedly set on my relationship with the Lord, whatever excuse I may have for it-that what my listlessness inclines me to do, is best to be done, etc. May 21, and July 13, 1723.

62. Resolved, never to do anything but duty, and then according to Ephesians 6:6-8, to do it willingly and cheerfully as unto the Lord, and not to man, knowing that whatever good thing any man doth, the same shall he receive of the Lord.  June 25 and July 13, 1723.

63. Suppose that there could be only one fully complete Christian in the world at a time, one who does all the right things, “shines” like a Christian should, and always appears excellent and lovely at all times and in all places and from every perspective:  Resolved, to act just as I would do, to strive with all my might to be that one Christian that should live in my time. January 14 and July 13, 1723. [So it’s draft day, and only one person gets drafted.  And draft day happens only once every 70-80 years.  How hard would you work to be the one that is chosen?  Edwards is saying he would work that hard, knowing that he has already done enough.]

64. Resolved, when I find those “groans that words cannot express” (Romans 8:26), of which the Apostle speaks, and those times when “My soul is consumed with longing for your law” of which the Psalmist speaks (Psalm 119:20), that I will promote them to the utmost of my power, and that I will not be weary of earnestly endeavoring to vent my desires, nor of the repetitions of such earnestness. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

71. Gaze not on the marks or blemishes of Others and ask not how they came. What you may Speak in Secret to your Friend deliver not before others.

72. Speak not in an unknown Tongue in Company but in your own Language and that as those of Quality do and not as the Vulgar; Sublime matters treat Seriously.

73. Think before you Speak pronounce not imperfectly nor bring out your Words too hastily but orderly & distinctly.

74. When Another Speaks be attentive your Self and disturb not the Audience if any hesitate in his Words help him not nor Prompt him without desired, Interrupt him not, nor Answer him till his Speech be ended.

75. In the midst of Discourse ask not of what one treateth but if you Perceive any Stop because of your coming you may well intreat him gently to Proceed: If a Person of Quality comes in while your Conversing it’s handsome to Repeat what was said before.

76. While you are talking, Point not with your Finger at him of Whom you Discourse nor Approach too near him to whom you talk, especially to his face. [Instant anger erupts when one points the finger.]

77. Treat with men at fit Times about Business & Whisper not in the Company of Others. [I understand the no whispering rule…]

78. Make no Comparisons and if any of the Company be Commended for any brave act of Virtue, commend not another for the Same.

79. Be not apt to relate News if you know not the truth thereof. In Discoursing of things you Have heard Name not your Author always A Secret Discover not.

80. Be not Tedious in Discourse or in reading unless you find the Company pleased therewith. [Translation: Stop talking when you see the person you are talking to yawning]

50. Resolved, I will act today in such a manner that, when I look back from heaven, I will be able to honestly say that I did things the best and most prudent way possible. July 5, 1723. [Eternal Perspective!!]

51. Resolved, that I will act so, in every respect, as I think I shall wish I had done, if I were to find myself condemned to hell for eternity. July 8, 1723.

52. I frequently hear persons in old age, say how they would live, if they were to live their lives over again: Resolved, that I will live in that right way so that I will have no such regrets, if it pleases God let me live to old age. July 8, 1723. [I may just post this one on my bathroom mirror.]

53. Resolved, to improve every opportunity, when I am in the best and happiest frame of mind, to cast and venture my soul on the Lord Jesus Christ, to trust and confide in him, and consecrate myself wholly to him; that from this I may have assurance of my safety, knowing that I confide in my Redeemer. July 8, 1723.

54. Whenever I hear anything spoken in conversation of any person, if I think it would be praiseworthy in me, Resolved to endeavor to imitate it. July 8, 1723.

55. Resolved, to try with all my power to do as I would do if I had seen the happiness of heaven, and the torment of hell. July 8, 1723.

56. Resolved, never to give over, nor in the least to slacken, my fight with my corruptions, however unsuccessful I may be. [As surely as we know we will be tempted to sin, it is as sure that Satan will try to leverage his victories with a temptation to give up.  Never give in!]

Get ready to strap on the ole’ feedbag again.  Lenny’s putting together a Saturday night special for the guys.  The particulars are as follows:

What: We’ll be enjoying cheeseburgers & fries

When: Saturday, September 19th @ 6.30 p.m.

Where: Christ Church, 300 building

Who: You and a friend

How (part 1)…much does it cost? $3

How (part 2)…do I get in on this spectacular deal?  Call Lenny @ 940-5496

The guys from Mt. Tabor graced us with their presence a couple of months ago. If you’re interested in returning the favor, they will be having their Men’s Ministry dinner on Monday, August 31 @ 6:30 p.m. Call Lenny if you need more info (940-5496).

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