61. Utter not base and frivolous things amongst grave and learned men, nor very difficult questions or subjects among the ignorant or things hard to be believed.  Stuff not your discourse with sentences amongst your betters nor equals.  [Don’t bore people or talk over their heads.  I see some biblical support here in the admonition that we should consider others better than ourselves.  Talking to hear ourselves speak isn’t considering others better.]

62. Speak not of doleful things in a time of mirth, or at the table; Speak not of melancholy things as Death and Wounds, and if others mention them Change if you can the Discourse.  Tell not your Dreams, but only to your intimate Friend.

63. A man ought not to value himself of his achievements, or rare qualities of wit; much less of his riches, virtue or kindred.

64. Break not a jest where none take pleasure in mirth.  Laugh not aloud, nor at all without occasion, deride no man’s misfortune, though there seem to be some cause.

65. Speak not injurious words neither in jest nor earnest. Scoff at none although they give occasion.

66. Be not forward but friendly and Courteous; the first to Salute hear and answer & be not Pensive when it’s a time to Converse.

67. Detract not from others, neither be excessive in commanding.

68. Go not thither, where you know not, whether you shall be welcome or not. Give not advice without being asked & when desired do it briefly.  [I’ll admit that this is hard for a lot of us, myself not only included, but at the head of the line.  Until someone really wants your advice they will not ask for it.]

69. If two contend together take not the part of either unconstrained; and be not obstinate in your own opinion, in Things indifferent be of the Major Side.

70. Reprehend not the imperfections of others for that belongs to Parents, Masters, and Superiors.

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